As specialists in family law, our lawyers understand the worries our clients face when explaining changes in the family dynamic to their children. Whether you’re divorcing, separating, introducing a new partner, or planning on having more children, these conversations can feel daunting and uncomfortable. Parents often spend a lot of time contemplating the most sensitive way to approach these subjects to ensure their children feel supported.

One effective way to discuss changes in the family dynamic is through reading, either together with your children or encouraging older children to read on their own. Reading offers numerous benefits, such as helping children understand and relate to the changes in their lives. It provides comfort and assures them that they are not alone. Just think back to your own favourite childhood book and the comfort it still brings you when revisited. Similarly, children’s books about family dynamics can offer that same solace.

There is a wealth of wonderful children’s books available that address various family dynamics. These books can help children understand different scenarios and serve as a perfect conversation starter for those who may be more reserved.

Here are a few book options to consider for children which are listed in age groups:

Under 7s

• My Family’s Changing – Pat Thomas
• Ms Cliff the Climber – Allan Ahlberg
• Living with Mum and living with Dad – Melanie
  Walsh

7 to 11s

• One Mum Too Many- Anne Bryant
• The Lottie Project – Jacqueline Wilson
• I Cosmo – Carlie Sorosiak

11+

• It’s Not the End of the World – Judy Blume
• The Suitcase Kid – Jacqueline Wilson
• Step by Wicked Step – Ann Fine

National Read a Book Day is celebrated on the 6th of September each year. The day encourages both adults and children to take a break from their routines and enjoy a good book, whether on family dynamics or simply for pleasure. So, take a moment this National Read a Book Day to bond with your children over a story, opening up pathways for discussions and providing much-needed comfort.

How can we help?

Divorce or separation can be a very difficult time for any family. If you need support or advice on child arrangements, relocation, divorce, or separation, please contact one of our family law specialists by calling 020 3440 8000 or email family@tvedwards.com.

Disclaimer: The information on the TV Edwards website is for general information only and reflects the position at the date of publication.