World Book Day is more than just dressing up as your favourite character — it’s a celebration of the power of stories. For children experiencing changes in their family, reading together can be a comforting and meaningful way to make sense of their world.
As family lawyers, we often guide parents through separation, divorce, or blended family arrangements. But beyond legal advice, one of the most powerful tools parents have is the simple act of reading with their children. Books can help children understand change, express emotions, and feel reassured that they are not alone.
Why Reading Together Matters
Reading is not just an enjoyable activity – it builds connection, promotes communication, and encourages understanding. For children who are neurodivergent, reading can be especially transformative. One of our lawyers, Partner and Head of Public Law Children Alia Lewis, shares her experience with her 11-year-old son who is autistic.
Orson didn’t begin to develop verbal communication until age six and reading together was initially challenging. Over time, rhyming stories by authors such as Julia Donaldson captured his attention, helping him anticipate words, participate in the story, and gradually develop reading skills. Today, he reads independently, and their shared reading moments continue to nurture connection, understanding, and curiosity.
This story highlights a universal truth: all children, regardless of how they communicate, absorb and understand far more than we often realise. Reading together is a small act that can provide comfort, structure, and a safe space for exploring feelings.
Books to Support Children Through Family Change
Children’s books that address changing family dynamics can be a wonderful conversation starter. Some age-appropriate recommendations include:
Under 7s
- My Family’s Changing – Pat Thomas
- Ms Cliff the Climber – Allan Ahlberg
- Living with Mum and Living with Dad – Melanie Walsh
7 to 11s
- One Mum Too Many – Anne Bryant
- The Lottie Project – Jacqueline Wilson
- I Cosmo – Carlie Sorosiak
11+
- It’s Not the End of the World – Judy Blume
- The Suitcase Kid – Jacqueline Wilson
- Step by Wicked Step – Ann Fine
For children who enjoy rhymes and illustrations, stories such as Room on the Broom, Zog, A Squash and a Squeeze, The Gruffalo, Snail and the Whale, and Bear Shaped by Dawn Coulter-Cruttenden (about a young autistic boy coping with the loss of his teddy) are excellent choices.
Creating Comfort, Connection, and Conversation
World Book Day reminds us to pause, share a story, and connect. Reading together gives children a safe way to explore their emotions, while giving parents a tool to foster understanding, empathy, and joy. It’s a small ritual with a profound impact, especially during times of change.
Whether your child is neurodivergent or neurotypical, these shared moments can build reassurance, spark conversation, and create memories that last a lifetime.
How We Can Help
Family transitions can be challenging. Our specialists are here to provide guidance on child arrangements, relocation, divorce, or separation. Contact us at 020 3440 8000 or email family@tvedwards.com to speak to a family law professional who understands both the legal and emotional journey of family life.
Alia Lewis specialises in representing and protecting the rights of neurodivergent and vulnerable clients, bringing both professional expertise and a deep understanding of the unique challenges these families may face.
